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BDSM Personal Ads - How to Do Them the Right Way

by:Sunspice      2020-08-07
Devising BDSM personal ads is not an easy process. Sure, you can place an ad on a personals site and add a picture. However, there are certain aesthetics you need to pay attention to when you craft such an advertisement. Basically, the common error people make when they post ads on such fetish sites is they make their ads explicit. This can prove to be a very self-defeating purpose. Yes, you can make them enticing through the right poses and even 'attitudes', but they need not be explicit. Some may wonder why an explicit advertisement on a fetish dating site could prove to be self-defeating. There are a few reasons for this. First, not everyone that is looking for someone on such a site is used to the lifestyle. As such, explicit or over the top advertisements could end up putting others off. That means you will not receive much of a response to your BDSM personal ads. And, in all honesty, even those that have been in the BDSM lifestyle for some time may be offended by ads that are overly explicit in nature. Though the lifestyle is adult by nature, some people take offense when it is portrayed as bordering on pornography. Bear in mind that alternative lifestyles such as BDSM and S&M are practiced by people from all walks of life including married couples. So, it is best to avoid such personal ads. They simply promote the notion that you are looking for casual amorous adventures. Most people on a legitimate dating site would probably wish to avoid such individuals. There are sites that cater to such tastes but most BDSM sites are more akin to finding long lasting dominant/submissive relationships. Some may wonder then how they are supposed to raise the specter of their fetishes and desires in their advertisements. The answer is... well, tastefully. No, that does not mean you need to be too clinical in your approach. You can liven it up and even add a bit of levity to the BDSM personal ads as well. This can improve the odds that you will make a quality impression on those that examine the profiles. Even if the site you are signing on with allows nudity on the photos in profiles, realize that you don't have to do this. A leather-clad, boots-wearing girl with a whip and 'bad' attitude that just screams 'dominatrix!' will almost certainly do better than one with a naked beautiful but expressionless woman. Some may find the advice of keeping BDSM personal ads PG to R rated as opposed to X rated to be a little 'too vanilla.' Well, you can devise the personal ads in any way you feel comfortable. This is certainly up to you. However, those looking to boost their chances of success would probably wish to play it safe. Keep your profiles lighthearted and upbeat. This is true of all online dating sites and personal ads and not exclusive to BDSM. You want to get the most out of your BDSM personal ads. That means you should not take steps to undermine the value of getting the most out of your dating sessions. Simple common sense will help you go far with devising the proper profile.
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