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How Men and Women Differ When It Comes to Sexual Fantasies

by:Sunspice      2020-08-05
As children we learn to fantasize and play games (remember playing Doctor?). But, when we become adults, many of us lose the ability to play and act out our fantasies. However, being an adult doesn't mean you can't have fun and share your fantasies. Acting out fantasies and role-playing can create greater trust and intimacy between partners while helping you to achieve a more sexually fulfilling and exciting sexual life together. While women love romance they also like naughty sex and fantasies as well. Maybe a pair of handcuffs might excite her more than a box of chocolates or bouquet of roses. Seriously? Why yes! According to studies done by Nancy Friday the author of 'My Secret Garden' and other sources, the Surrender of Control, Being a Sex Slave and Being a Dominatrix were among the top 10 of women's sexual fantasies. The Surrender of Control This type of fantasy allows women to be sexual without being responsible for their actions. If you are held down or are tied up, you are not in control of what happens to you. So you still remain a 'good girl' even during the naughtiest of sex. These fantasies allow women to be openly sexual and explore different aspects of their sexuality, something many women cannot do in real life. While in the fantasy they are not in control, in reality they are, which is what sets it apart from an actual rape. Fantasizing about being raped is a means of expressing a desire to be sexual, not a subconscious desire to be raped. For men, Dominance and Submission and Women in Authority also rated high in their top 10 fantasies. Dominance and Submission Fantasies Dominance and submission fantasies (also know as BDSM) are popular with men as well as women. These types of role-playing fantasies include being bound and helpless, being dominated, or having a willing submissive pander to your every whim. Female dominant roles include the bitchy boss lady, a nasty dominatrix, the teacher, a nun, doctors, nurses, or mother figures, and wicked Queens. While Threesomes rated number one for men and Gay Encounters rated last, Lesbian Sex rated high for both men and women. Lesbian Sex Fantasizing about or actually participating in sex with another woman does not automatically make someone a lesbian. Lesbian sex is a hot fantasy for both men and women alike and is a fairly common activity to try out, even if one is just curious. Threesomes Also know as a Manage a Trios, threesomes have always been a highly coveted fantasy, especially for men. Two girls making love to each other and to him? This would thrill most men, at least in fantasy. In real life, threesomes can be somewhat more complicated. But, it is still very popular with many couples who enjoy swinging and group sex. It seems both men and women are attracted to the 'bad girl' role: the slut, the prostitute, the stripper, the motor-cycle mama. Bad Girls do it Best It's no secret that bad girls have hot naughty sex. At least that is what we'd love to believe. Women who are 'good girls' in real life may like to imagine what it is like to be openly sexual and down right naughty. They may fantasize that they are a prostitute, a stripper, or any women who is 'required' to be sexual as part of her identity. For guys, bad girls will do anything a guy wants and they like it. Fantasizing about having a prostitute is about wanting a skilled lover, who will fulfill any fantasy, no matter how 'dirty', no questions asked. While women tend to fantasize more about people: sex with a stranger, a past lover, or a celebrity, guys tend to get off more on an act of body part or type of sex. Fellatio is the 2nd highest fantasy for men, while Sex with a Stranger is very hot for women. Fellatio For many men, having their penis sucked by a willing and eager participant is the ultimate fantasy. Men often fixate on body parts when having fantasies, and seeing their cock in a sexy mouth is always a big turn on. Sex With a Stranger Having sex with a total stranger who you will never see again, means you can be openly sexual without fear of being labeled. As with the above mentioned, 'Surrender of Control,' stranger sex allows women to be sexual when real life circumstances may prevent it. If your sexual partner is faceless you do not have to worry about facing them afterwards. In addition, having sex with a stranger, a person you just met, is a naughty one night stand and is much like a man's fantasy of having a prostitute. So, while men may be from Mars and women from Venus, we still have a lot of hot fantasies that we can share together. Fantasies don't ever have to become a reality. They can be make-believe like role-playing for example. Dressing up and playing Doctor can be even more exciting than it was when you were a kid. So, loosen up, share your fantasies and have some fun.
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